Forgiving is not always the right path. In fact, there are times when the forgiving we have been taught to do is just plain wrong.
I will start with an example of forgiveness that works. Then we’ll look at some of the ways the forgiveness we have been taught actually makes things worse.
Effective forgiving lets an incident fade into the past. While some harm happened to one or more of the people involved, everyone can let it go as something they learned from. No one keeps thinking about all the things they could have or should have done.
How can that happen?
In this discussion I’m going to look at something that happened between two people. Continue reading and add your comment